Independent

Yesterday, My friend-cum-room mate suggested me not to get married. According to her, both of us belongs to same wave length. Both r independent in our thoughts, believes and action We believe in equality. According to her, "the woman's fate is very much dependent on her husband's".

After marriage, it's very difficult to express or make it happen the woman's dreams, thoughts, decisions etc. If she tries to remain strong on her deceision, then it is named as she is a dominating character. Lots of expections, sacrifices are pre decided for women. She should be like a novel's ideal character. But, why a woman will bury her dreams, desires, thoughts principles under her relatives expectations??? Whether she is not a human being?



Whenever I think about myself, same thing happens to me also. But, I always remain firm on my decison for which my mother, brother & sister supported me alot. My father does not appreciate or accept my independent behaviours like travelling alone, going markets or any official work or keep a seat in bus in advance etc. independently. Whenever I have to catch bus (which goeas infront of our house) at early mornig, I do not disturb any body. it annoyes to My father. I have strongly fixed some conditions for my marriage which is un social behaviour according to my surroundings(gender). From my childhood, I try to do something diffferent from others & take decisions myself and take suggestions to whom I trust. I believe that I should be independent in my thoughts, expression & also action sothat I will be accountable for everything. I will not blame to anybody. I am happy about my life style . It gives me confidence, energy to sustain myself in this world. If I loose my independence, I will loose my identity, my confidence, my smiles, my spirits to create a history , everything.... Oh god, Bless me to remain always as I am. I know u r always with me. So, to whom/ what I fear.